
Maybe I am getting older, maybe I am getting richer, maybe my phone numbers is out there in a bunch of databases, but I have been getting lots of unwanted “business” calls from friends and friends of friends lately.
A few have been offering a legitimate service, but a few have been straight up pyramid schemes. I have been expecting a few calls from business that I don’t have the number in my phone for, so I tend to answer my phone most of the time thinking that it could be important. Yes I realize that I can let it go right to voicemail, but that kind of defeats the purpose of having a cell phone does it not?
These calls that I get are usually not from a nameless telemarketer that I have no qualms about giving a nasty “not interested” and hanging up. They are from friends, acquaintances, or friends of friends. Not the kind of people that I want to burn bridges with.
I feel like they are putting me in a very difficult position, they are using their good relationship as leverage into going along with whatever they are selling. What is a guy to do?
The only thing I can think is be polite, listen to their pitch, and tell them in no uncertain terms that I am not interested, and then if they persist be a bit more direct. I feel at the point that I give them a pretty definite NO, that they have used up all the goodwill they have with me. At that point (I think) I am allowed to treat them like any other unwanted solicitor.
Moral of the Story: I guess we all have to do things we feel uncomfortable doing, and only by actually doing them are we able to become comfortable.
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